MIND YOUR LANGUAGE NOT YOUR BODY....CHECK THIS OUT AS WORDS ALSO HAVE POWER .

Pen is mightier than the sword!!! And words are mightier than the weapons!!!

Words have the power.They are  more dangerous  than weapons. 
Words if not used properly have the ability to shatter a person. A
weapon can go through the skin, flesh and bone and can injure the 
 person externally, but words said wrongly can cut the "YOU" in you.

Only words have this ability.Many times we aren't aware of how the 

words we choose online or in real life can affect others. Writing online 

is both a right as well as a responsibility. Words online are harder to 
interpret and many times they get misinterpreted and hurt the feeling 
of others. So when we are on a public forum its better that we 
"Mind our Language".

While we blog on social sites we always expect comments from the readers. 
We do come across inspiring comments and encouraging comments which
definitely have the power to help and heal us but at the same time we do 
find some filthy comments also which hurts the person and his or her 
self respect. We should take into consideration the fact that  since 
nobody knows us personally in a social site  we should be careful 
about the kind of impression we leave about ourselves while commenting

There are lots of online readers and a filthy comment posted by us 
not only hurts the blogger but also leaves a bad opinion about 
ourselves among the readers. When we speak to a person in real life 
also we must watch the words we use.  Before we frame our comment, 
it is better to view that from the other persons’ perspective. Better we try 
to understand the blogger’s  mind and weigh whether our words will suit
the situation. Sometimes wrong  words spoken on wrong situation may
lead to loss of relationship with both friends and relatives. Though they 
may be Jokes  when said in an inappropriate manner or at improper times 
they can hurt . The cruel words can leave scars.

While chatting online with net friends or while talking to them over phone, 
most of them spill their hearts with people whom they have never met or
never known. So its better we mind the language and better restrict
ourselves from talking personal things to unknown people. Some 
people who do not disclose their identity, worm into these peoples 
life and make them vulnerable to their personal wishes just through 
chats and phone calls. They just vanish one day suddenly and the 
other person is emotionally disturbed and left depressed. People 
become susceptible to such acts at any age in this netage.

We find on the social sites  lot of fake identities who spread rumours, 
through notes and mails as well as use hurtful words, especially to 
the women members. They also post blogs  using derogatory language 
and statements which hurt the other members Some times, such 
persons leave dirty comments  also. But they vanish after sometime 
by deleting their membership. Most of these are targetted towards 
the women members of the site. Because of the rise of such false 
identities, we slowly lose the faith in our friends on the net because
we tend to suspect everyone and sometimes it is shocking to know 
that some friends (Net friends) engage themselves in cheap plots 
like abusing others in false names. This betrayal of friendship
has become very wide-spread among net friends.

Let me conclude that whenever we speak to others or when we interact
with others on the net, let us not use hurting words. Because we know 
words are more damaging than weapons. Let us try to maintain a 
peaceful mind (Not a drunken mind) and speak with compassion 
 and understanding so that we avoid hurting others with our sharp
words both personally and online.