The trend of footwear .............step ahead !

 

Add something special and trendy in their closet is the most important thing that ladies care about, that is true. As there are so many items you can find on the market, what is the perfect item for you? Right now there is one kind of winter shoes may let your wish come true. The cheap ugg boots have set a crazy trend of footwear all over the world recently, since these boots combine fashion and function perfectly.

These uggs have another name called sheepskin boots, because they are made of first-class merino sheepskin. This greatest material can ensure the ability of providing warm to you feet, so that cold weather won't bother you in winter. The other feature of these boots, which may surprise you, is that they can be worn in warm days, too. The sheepskin has highly performance in breathability, which can let moisture and heat escape from your boots easily.

It also has a design that is meant for the more feminine women with a fleece on the outside of the boot. But this brand is more than just sheepskin ugg boots; it has casual shoes, slippers as well as handbags and other accessories. UGG casual shoes are comfortable, stylish, and great to wear in any occasion. UGG slippers are warm and comforting and great to wear to bed or just sitting on the couch.

The uggs are all about warmth and comfort. Their prices are also affordable, when compare with other brands. Treat your feet well is important, since they are working all the time and need to bear all your weight, that is why the shoes choosing should be carefully and with patient.

Since nowadays many of us prefer to use the online shopping, you should be careful because if you don't buy on official websites, you may be cheated and not sent what you purchased already. Be careful with the website you use. When you shopping online you can easily find discount UGG boots, remember make sure the boots are genuine or not before you decide to buy them.

Should parents be friends to their children ?

In life we have different roles to play. Boss/subordinate, teacher/ student, husband/wife, friend/friend, director/actor, singer/music director, parent/ child etc. etc. We have to play the role that is assigned to us at that moment. When we are boss we need to behave like one and similarly when we are the subordinate we need to behave like one. It will be catastrophic when these roles are reversed or not played correctly.

Role of a parent and a friend are different-so much so they are even conflicting. Parent is one who holds position of responsibility, a guardian, even a role model to a child. They make decisions for them, they are also consultants, give guidance and always seek the best for them. They are at least one rung above the child. Friends on the other hand are peers and are not responsible for the child’s action. 

Being a friend can lead to over indulgence and may even make the child clueless, without any proper direction. These children are likely to become ineffective parents as well.

Be friendly, but not their best friend. Let them do chores. Set limits and enforce them.

Parents who are afraid to put their foot down usually have children who step on their toes

I think, our children, like us have lots of friends, but have only one mother and father. This unique relationship should always be maintained. When in doubt, when in a problem and to guide them in the correct path whom will they approach? If parents are friends then to whom will they go for advice, who will show them the righteous path, whose hand will they hold while crossing an abyss and on whose shoulders will they cry?

Don’t worry that your children never listen to you, worry that they are always watching you.

WHO IS SUFFERING THE KIDS.,PARENTS GET DIVORCED AND CHILD SUFFER IN LOVE MARRIAGES 50% of love marriages are sucess ....from top to middle level family.....

WHO IS SUFFERING THE KIDS.,PARENTS GET DIVORCED AND CHILD SUFFER  IN LOVE MARRIAGES  ....
Liz Hurley’s husband is demanding to know when she embarked on her affair with Australian cricket legend Shane Warne.Textile tycoon Arun Nayar is said to be “furious” over revelations that his wife of three years is having a fling with Warne.Lawyers have told Arun that he can serve divorce papers on the cricketer as part of any proceedings, but only if he wishes to petition his wife on the grounds of “inappropriate behaviour”.
Swimwear model Hurley, 45, who was pictured kissing former spin bowler Warne last week, claimed she had separated from Arun “a few months ago”.Hurley who has a eight year old son ....where he will stand her mother in the picture .

 

A Dehradun software engineer Rajesh Gulati (37) is alleged to have committed the ghastly murder of his wife, chopped the corpse and preserved it in a deep freezer for about two months.The couple had been residing with their two children in Dehradun for about 18 months. This horrifying incident was discovered after a complaint filed by the victim Anupama Gulati’s brother because he was not getting any specific information about his sister from the accused Rajesh Gulati.After the complaint, Anupama's husband was nabbed by the police and he confessed to the murder of his wife.This incident took place on October 17 after which he told his children that Anupama is in Delhi. He also told his wife’s brother Sujan that everything is fine between them but, a suspicious Sujan visited Dehra Dun and couldn’t find Anupama there.

 

Rajesh said “We were yelling and a fight started. In a fit of rage I banged her head against the bed. She went unconscious. Now, since a domestic violence case was already going on, I could not have let people come to know about it. I, then, decided to kill her."

 

MA Ganapathy, Inspector General of Garhwal range said, "Rajesh bought a deep freezer after the very act and stashed all the pieces of his wife's body into it. Everyday Rajesh went out and dumped some of the pieces little by little on the outskirts of the city. He confessed to his crime while he was being interrogated."

The question comes here is the kids r responsible for their mother death .....or divorced.

 

ITS MY EGO,YOURS OR OURS.....

I got one message from my friend, this e-world of e-commerce, e-mail, e-ticket, e-cards don't forget e-shwar!! He is the one who gives you e-very thing! In that list he has left another one, which exists from the beginning... e-go!

If you consult the psychologists or psychiatrists, they would agree with my view that most of the problems in the life were created by that three letter word.

When it starts and how that too at what age... Nobody knows. in one of the petty fights between my son and daughter, he unintentionally hit her hand. Immediately my daughter gave it back. Then the war of words started flowing; as usual the referee was called (who else other than me!) and a minute's thought I gave the judgment. As the action was not preplanned,   each one has to tender apology to another. But my son agreed to say sorry but my daughter was not. Then he told if she is having such a ego why I should give up; I will not say the word. It's a reasonable argument. My daughter replied, as he hit first, she had to give it back. What is the need of apology! A valid reply! Then I had to use law and order rules to disperse their dispute! (That's different story!)

In another scenario, one young couple was watching television. Wife told something to her husband, he didn't listen to what she said (as usual!). He was busy in watching an important announcement in the television. After that she turned to his wife and asked whether she had told anything. No reply from her. Time rolled by. No conversations between them. He thought nothing important, so she was not speaking anything. She thought he was not interested in her and so the silence. See how the ego spreads like a mushroom. Finally it ended in a divorce!!

The ego starts like a small plant on a rock. Slowly it forms cracks in it and finally makes it into two pieces. A lull period develops between two good friends. After a gap that creates the opinion in each others minds that “let the other one shall contact.. Why should I?”. Slowly the love becomes hate. In due course two good friends will become great enemies for a silly reason! Who has to be blamed? Is it because of their ego?

I asked one of my friends about this. His views are like this: ego is just a reflection of self-pride. That's essential for every one. It enhances your own belief. Or you can say, it's a byproduct of self-esteem. If used in a positive way, it can create wonders. The vice versa is also true. If it's not used properly, it can be destructive too. Then my question was, is it necessary to have such a thing. Mere self-confidence is not essential to do wonders? Is it not a fuel for superiority complex? There is a thin line separates self-confidence and pride. “I can do it!” – Self-confidence! “I can only do it; nobody can!” this is pride! No answer for my questions from him. Now it's your turn. How can say go to a non-existent entity? In my view, nothing like ego exists. It's a state-of-mind. It differs from individual to individual. So generalizing such feeling with an irrelevant term “ego” will not serve the purpose. Rather it complicates it.

My question is whether such a thing exists in our minds? If so where..? If every body has it, why it affects few of us; not all. Is it a nature's gift or artificial creature? If we go further is it a faux pas or excuse created by us to escape?

What's ur opinion pals?

MIND YOUR LANGUAGE NOT YOUR BODY....CHECK THIS OUT AS WORDS ALSO HAVE POWER .

Pen is mightier than the sword!!! And words are mightier than the weapons!!!

Words have the power.They are  more dangerous  than weapons. 
Words if not used properly have the ability to shatter a person. A
weapon can go through the skin, flesh and bone and can injure the 
 person externally, but words said wrongly can cut the "YOU" in you.

Only words have this ability.Many times we aren't aware of how the 

words we choose online or in real life can affect others. Writing online 

is both a right as well as a responsibility. Words online are harder to 
interpret and many times they get misinterpreted and hurt the feeling 
of others. So when we are on a public forum its better that we 
"Mind our Language".

While we blog on social sites we always expect comments from the readers. 
We do come across inspiring comments and encouraging comments which
definitely have the power to help and heal us but at the same time we do 
find some filthy comments also which hurts the person and his or her 
self respect. We should take into consideration the fact that  since 
nobody knows us personally in a social site  we should be careful 
about the kind of impression we leave about ourselves while commenting

There are lots of online readers and a filthy comment posted by us 
not only hurts the blogger but also leaves a bad opinion about 
ourselves among the readers. When we speak to a person in real life 
also we must watch the words we use.  Before we frame our comment, 
it is better to view that from the other persons’ perspective. Better we try 
to understand the blogger’s  mind and weigh whether our words will suit
the situation. Sometimes wrong  words spoken on wrong situation may
lead to loss of relationship with both friends and relatives. Though they 
may be Jokes  when said in an inappropriate manner or at improper times 
they can hurt . The cruel words can leave scars.

While chatting online with net friends or while talking to them over phone, 
most of them spill their hearts with people whom they have never met or
never known. So its better we mind the language and better restrict
ourselves from talking personal things to unknown people. Some 
people who do not disclose their identity, worm into these peoples 
life and make them vulnerable to their personal wishes just through 
chats and phone calls. They just vanish one day suddenly and the 
other person is emotionally disturbed and left depressed. People 
become susceptible to such acts at any age in this netage.

We find on the social sites  lot of fake identities who spread rumours, 
through notes and mails as well as use hurtful words, especially to 
the women members. They also post blogs  using derogatory language 
and statements which hurt the other members Some times, such 
persons leave dirty comments  also. But they vanish after sometime 
by deleting their membership. Most of these are targetted towards 
the women members of the site. Because of the rise of such false 
identities, we slowly lose the faith in our friends on the net because
we tend to suspect everyone and sometimes it is shocking to know 
that some friends (Net friends) engage themselves in cheap plots 
like abusing others in false names. This betrayal of friendship
has become very wide-spread among net friends.

Let me conclude that whenever we speak to others or when we interact
with others on the net, let us not use hurting words. Because we know 
words are more damaging than weapons. Let us try to maintain a 
peaceful mind (Not a drunken mind) and speak with compassion 
 and understanding so that we avoid hurting others with our sharp
words both personally and online.