Saturday, September 04, 2010

IS I AM HAPPY BEING MARRIED ?


The Secret of  My Happy Married Life

Once I was asked by YOU, "What is the secret behind your happy married life?"

I said, "You should share responsibilities with due love and Respect each other. Then absolutely there will be no problems."

You asked, "Can you explain?"

I said, "In my house, I take decisions on smaller  issues where as my husband decides on bigger issues. We do not interfere in each others decisions."

Still not convinced, YOU asked me "Give me some examples"

I said," all the issue  like, which car we should buy, how much amount to save, when to visit home town, which Sofa, air conditioner, refrigerator, monthly expenses, whether to keep a maid, where kids should get admitted, outing  or not etc are decided by my husband. I just agree to it"...but still i think if I disagree sometime what will happen,if I don't adjust with him what will happen, its not that I am scared of him but I think he is more intellectual then me in bringing my life to be happy.

YOU asked, "Then what is your role?"

I said, "My decisions are only for a smile  a while ...if he is caring for me all over then y not i, u know  what within a weak of my marriage I was on family way I was crying like anything but today I realize when I see my little daughter when she makes me smile all the way and help me in my work feel so relax, Its going to be more then 9 years now sometimes I still think is I am happy being married and Do you know one thing...

My husband NEVER, EVER objects to any of my decisions after reading it u may realize I never take a decision  so there is no question of objecting ...that called being married I am enjoying my married life  "…………!!!!!!

2 comments:

  1. purush wadi mansikta pr ye ek theekha prahar hain,patni ka itna mansik samarpan pati ko "karela neem chadha" kee ukti ko he charitarth karti hain.

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  2. no comments as no experience of marriage ...

    any how Devilz happy single.. :P

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